Showing posts with label Parenting. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Parenting. Show all posts

Tuesday, 17 July 2012

Teach by NOT teaching

Teacher at Chalkboard According to a relatively recent article in the "Journal of Learning Sciences" (learned of from Time magazine via Lifehacker), we are doing a disservice to our students and workers when we 'making learning easy'.  Kapur and Bielaczyc found that, in comparing students with and without direct teacher-involved instruction, those without consistently outperformed those with in post-tests.  On the one hand this is counter-intuitive:  when I'm building a barn, it's probably going to take me longer and I'm probably going to do a poorer job if I'm all alone than if my friends and neighbours come and help me.  It's easier to climb stairs than a rocky cliff.    But on the other hand, we tend to place more importance (and therefore internal resources such as attention, confidence, memory, etc.) on things that were difficult to achieve if for no other reason than we don't want to feel like we've wasted our time or, worse, looked foolish wasting our time.  Here is the summary of how to use this nugget of info in practice (from the Time magazine article):
First, choose problems to work on that “challenge but do not frustrate.” Second, provide learners with opportunities to explain and elaborate on what they’re doing. Third, give learners the chance to compare and contrast good and bad solutions to the problems.
Sounds like good advice.  As a parent, this suggests that I should back off a bit from helping my kids figure out homework or difficult new concepts.  As a librarian, this suggests that we should do our best to find that middle ground between challenging and frustrating info searchers and that perhaps we be more involved in the learning review steps, perhaps by providing venues and/or tools support such review.

[ Read Lifehacker's "The More You Struggle with New Information the More Likely You Are to Learn It" then Time magazine's "Why Floundering Is Good" then, if you have time and access Journal of Learning Sciences' "Designing for Productive Failure" ]

Monday, 28 September 2009

Not enough time in the day

I spent a lot of today trying to fit in all the chores and responsibilities I have to do into a coherent and workable schedule, one in which I can get what I need to get done done but also not go absolutely bonkers with no time for myself, my kids, or the unknown.

I THOUGHT I had achieved a rock solid schedule but of course, it has cracked in a few key places already: forgot to include my daughter's new homework club time that started today, dinner took longer than expected to prepare particularly because the kids helped out, and important phone calls interfered. All perfectly expected unexpected things to happen and I'm glad they happened today... it will help me work out the kinks of the "time layout".

But it does bring into sharp relief the fact that, no matter what you're doing or what your priorities are, you can't get everything done. There is not enough time to fit everything in. You have to pick and choose and some things will have to fall by the wayside. I'm not sure what I'll have to drop but it will have to be something.

What has helped me is that I've taken the advice of almost every productivity-related website and actually written down my goals. I've even put them in order of importance:
  1. My health (Exercise and eating right, as well as my comfort and entertainment. If I'm not happy and well, what's the point?);
  2. My family (Both immediate and extended, my being with them and their welfare.);
  3. My money (Not only making it but keeping it and saving it. Kind of important in this world.);
  4. My learning (This includes self-imposed challenges, much of my non-fiction reading, things I would like to learn as well as things I really should learn for my career.);
  5. My friends (Just as with my family, this in about connecting to them as well as supporting them. And it also includes other social efforts, making new friends, chatting up strangers meeting new people and the like.);
  6. My profession (Librarianship of course, but can include related efforts such as anything else academic. This involves both working on my own professionalism and librarianship skills but also supporting the profession itself, with getting published and presenting at conferences.);
  7. My "goodness" (Lacking a better single word for this, it refers to my efforts at making the work a better place, ethical goals, and helping people, however that manifests itself.); and
  8. My administrative matters (Checking email, filing, organizing, communicating, etc. Holding a lot of the previous 7 together.).
Although I've created this list, and tag all my activities in my to do list (RTM) with them as appropriate, I don't feel as though I've fully integrated them (and it) into my routine and efforts. But I guess, what it should come down to is that activities furthering goals near the bottom of the list must be sacrificed for those nearer to the top. Thinking of it this way, I'm not sure I can, although I quite sure I should. I can't really stop checking email or the going through the bills as they come it. Perhaps for things like that, they need to be filtered and focused on how they support what is higher on the list of priorities. That sounds better. Still, some things I'm trying to do, must be canceled. Don't know what of course, and all that rambling above means that it's not going to be a simple matter to determine what or how.

Any ideas? Anyone out there in this situation with any part of the solution?

Monday, 16 February 2009

A real day off...

I did remarkably little productive today. I had created a long list carefully scheduled for today's day off (due to either Heritage Day - a uniquely Kingston holiday - or Family Day - a recently conjured Ontario holiday) but disregarded it almost completely... I did reorganize all the items and postpone them appropriately. And you know what? I don't feel bad about it either. I got more accomplished Saturday and Sunday than I have in several past weekends so I figure I earned today's laziness. All I did today was:
  • goof around in World of Warcraft, working on professions, checking mail, participating in silly guild chat...
  • tried several more times in vain to convince my 8 year old daughter to PLEASE listen to what I have to say and that, unlike all the other parents in the world, I'm not saying these things for the good of my health... LOL
  • and read an article that I will be peer reviewing for the Journal of the Canadian Health Libraries Association (JCHLA)
Ta-daa!

Sunday, 1 April 2007

Work and not work...

Time Breakdown of Modern Web Design
This image from flickr is an excellent graphic to go along with today's post. (Update 20110628: Had to relink to the image since it disappeared. This one is by Paul Stamatiou.  The original was by Rsibaja. Backup is here.) I've spent several days over the past week or so rethinking and redesigning my blog. I'm still not perfectly happy with it (can you ever be) but I think I've got it to a point where I can let it be for a while. I've still got to create a forwarding page from the old url to here but that shouldn't take much time.

In other news... I've been going for family walks a little bit more recently. I was helping my 6yo daughter ride her bike and after a few trips up and down the sidewalk I felt like I was going to die... I think that's a hint from my body telling me that I should get a little more exercise. LOL

Work's good. It's getting closer and closer to the end of my temporary contract at Bracken so I'm getting a little anxious, looking and preparing for any job openings at Queen's U or in Kingston (or near enough anyway). Now that my colleague across the hall has officially announced that she's going on maternity leave in October, I feel a little less panicked, but I certainly don't want to just assume that that will be enough: I will still be looking and preparing in any case.

I've been using the "Remember the Milk" site to record my to do list and I've put several presentations I'd like to give at some upcoming conferences and events. Hopefully I'll be able to submit them, get accepted and complete them all... Speaking of which, I'd better get doing some of them and stop procrastinating. I've got to make dinner for the family first.

(Oh yeah, I've also taken some nice screenshots of some things in World of Warcraft. I'll put them in flickr and then maybe post one of two of them here. Along with a screenshot of my "completed" new design. For historical purposes.)

Wednesday, 28 March 2007

Waking up to everything...

Max continues to get up several time during the night and managed to, for the past two mornings, end up in bed with us without knowing until it was too late. I swear he's now hardwired to get up and stumble over (with incredibly ninja stealthing abilities) to our room.

Listening to Pink Floyd's "Coming Back to Life". I remember listening to this in university, alone in my dorm room. It starts out as a very "pity me", "how could you" kind of song but then turns into "Damn straight, screw you, I'm gonna make it" kind of song.

Did a HUGE literature search for a faculty member/resident/grad student (not sure really... it's very complicated... LOL) yesterday on zinc. Yes zinc. That's pretty much all I had to go on. Rather broad don't you think. Just RCTs and reviews of course, but still. Now you're jealous of my fantabulous job, aren't you?

The fire alarm went off yesterday... Thank GAWD it was a pretty nice day, weather-wise.

Found out that a co-worker of mine is pregnant. Congratulations and good luck and all that, yeah, yeah... go on maternity leave already so I can stay at Bracken a little longer please!!! LOL

Watched a couple webcast/webinars today. One on the databases Expanded Academic ASAP and Academic OneFile (didn't learn much new, already played around with them a few weeks ago), but the other one was about getting new knowledge to clinicians more and faster (see a summary of the session). We thought, "Hey, that sounds like libraries should and would be involved in that."  Nope. He didn't really put librarianship in too flattering a light. In fact, he put us in a column of other "ways for doctors to stay current that DON'T work". Thanks, Bri.

But in a way I agree with him. We don't do enough. We do a lot of work, and, what we do, I think we do well. But when it comes to pushing the information out to the users, changing people's minds about the value of good research practices, helping answer the questions that people have and may not even know that they have, we're not pushing hard enough. Most of the time we're not pushing at all. We need to be proactive, to be out there in people's faces, showing them that we exist, that we are valuable, and that we want to help. We can't always wait for them to come to us. That may sound odd from a librarian, but we need to be "loud and proud" and prove out worth. But it will take more work and smarter work for us to do it. But we can. I hope we will.

Monday, 26 March 2007

Darkness and rain...

Funny rain today.

My 2 year old son woke up, like, a million times through the night, and, as usual, got out of bed, left his room and came into our room to climb into bed with us. We're not having any more of it so we had to get up too, every time, to take him back to his own bed.

Since my ears were on full alert, listening for the tell-tale squeak of his bed to tell me I've got to get out of bed again, the incredibly loud thunder scared the hell out of me, conjuring images of furniture falling on my son as he stumbles around in the dark.

Then it doesn't really rain that hard all day (of course, how can I tell, the nearest I can see a window from my office would require me to lean out my doorway and squint 30 meters or so) but seems to wait until I have to walk to my car on my way home.

As I've said before probably, I like the rain. And it's nice to have a change of weather after so much cold and snow. Of course, I like snow too. I like the weather people grumble about the most.

I'm listening to Tori Amos' cover of Billy Holiday's "Strange Fruit" right now. It strangely fits into talk about the rain. It's a sad story about... well I'll let the lyrics speak for themselves:

Southern trees bear strange fruit,
Blood on the leaves and blood at the root,
Black bodies swinging in the southern breeze,
Strange fruit hanging from the poplar trees.

Pastoral scene of the gallant south,
The bulging eyes and the twisted mouth,
Scent of magnolias, sweet and fresh,
Then the sudden smell of burning flesh.

Here is fruit for the crows to pluck,
For the rain to gather, for the wind to suck,
For the sun to rot, for the trees to drop,
Here is a strange and bitter crop.


Here's the allmusic.com review for the piece.

Monday, 21 June 2004

Two things about three things...

Came across the two things so here's a few of my own.

Two things about Epistemology
  1. Knowledge ain't just data.
  2. You have to know that you know what you know.
Two things about Librarianship
  1. Nobody knows what they want.
  2. Sometimes it's just not there to get.
Two things about Fatherhood
  1. Let them go. Everyone has to make mistakes.
  2. Never let them go.

Sunday, 13 June 2004

As told by justaboutme...

Although I've always been a kid at heart and watched more than my fair share of immature programming [read kids' shows], these past few days off with the little spawn has, of course, led me to rely on the television for its vast powers of entertainment. I've discovered a delightfully fresh take on the teenage plight called "As told by Ginger". Do partake. Do.

Saturday, 12 June 2004

Home alone...

Well, it's my first full day of being mommy and daddy for a while. My wife took a well-deserved vacation to visit her parents and friends "back home" while I took some time off work to watch the little almost-four-year-old monster. We went grocery shopping. Got her a little chocolate pie. Left half of it on her face. Went home. Gave her some pudding. Left half of it in the tub. Made a pie and she had a slice. Left half of it on the floor. I'm surprised we don't have a pack of hyenas trailing us.

Sunday, 6 June 2004

Four year old in third person...

This morning my daughter decided to play a trick on her mother by hiding under a blanket in the middle of the floor. This is how, in her words, she thought it would play out.
When Mommy come here she a say, 'what this lump here?' and then I a say, I mean the LUMP say , 'I not a lump, I Zoe!'
Of course, she forgot her own script when Mommy came around.

Saturday, 5 June 2004

Celebrate good times...

Had my first real weekend in a long time. From working Sundays all the time, I would only get one day off a week. But today and tomorrow are the start of a beautiful friendship... And I celebrated this morning with my eyes closed for as long as my daughter would let me [my darling pregnant wife likes to sleep too].

Friday, 4 June 2004

Cornucopia of entertainment...

My daughter [4 years old pretty much] likes to watch:
  • Arthur
  • Barney [blechh]
  • Blue's Clues
  • Caillou
  • Dora the Explorer
  • Dragontales
  • Jo-Jo's Circus
  • Sponge Bob Square Pants
  • The Wiggles
...and probably a dozen more. We've come a long way since my day [what, am I a grizzled ol' prospecter now?] when I remember watching Sesame Street and Polka Dot Door and that's it... No computer animation, no entertaining kids commercials, no "Face" [you have to watch Nick Jr. to get that], maybe a colour TV if you were lucky. I'm not bitter.

Tuesday, 1 June 2004

Blink blink...

Tired now... Although I started this blog yesterday, records will show that I've only posted messages for one day before this one [a gummy bear to the dimbulb who takes more than 13 seconds to figure that out]. But I've stayed up too late which gives me a perfect excuse to stay up a little later and add another day to my archive.

Gotta get up early to go to the "ultrasounders" tomorrow [for the last time] to see my little baby [second and final stop]. His name is [or will be] Max. Well. Not a million. We are all very excited. Except for little miss number one. She will need a bucket of toys to prevent her from tearing out my last nerve during the twelve minutes I will have/want to watch all three of my closest loved ones.

Nighty-night.

Monday, 31 May 2004

Early in the morning...

I am the walking dead right now. I have spent the last hour and a half being woken up against my wishes by my daughter. When you have a four year old, you never need an alarm clock. Finally I gave in and I am now walking. That doesn't mean I'm awake, just mobile.